She's changing.

So is the world.

We're here to help you both thrive.

Science-backed programs and resources to help you and your daughter thrive through the preteen and teen years — together.

These years don't have to be something you just survive.

You might be noticing small changes — a wish for more independence, some eye rolling and more attitude. Your girl is growing into herself, and that's a beautiful thing. But it can also feel a lot.

You may be wondering, where did my little girl go? I’m not ready for this!

The truth is, the families who thrive through these years aren't the ones who just get lucky. They're the ones who started the conversations early, built the habits before the hard stuff hit, and found a community of people to go along on the ride.

That's exactly what we're here for.

We strongly believe these years can be filled with …

CONNECTION

GROWTH

& JOY

Here’s how we help you get there!

Raise a daughter who knows her own mind

From friendships and body image to technology and mental health — we help your daughter build the inner tools that will serve her for life.

Stay close through the changes

Our programs are designed to be done together — opening conversations that bring you closer, not create more distance.

Navigate the digital world without fear

You don't need to be a tech expert. You just need the right guide. We translate the research into real, practical steps your family can actually use.

Our signature program

The Phone Savvy Experience

A guided family program for the digital years.

Smartphones, social media, AI, screen time

Navigating all of this as a parent can feel overwhelming. Phone Savvy gives your whole family a clear, warm, science-informed path forward.

Watch engaging videos together, explore important conversations, and build a family plan that actually sticks.

For families with preteens aged 8–12.

What you'll walk away with:

  • A family that talks openly about tech — without the resistance

  • Your preteen equipped with critical thinking and digital wisdom before they need it

  • A clear, shared plan your whole household can get behind

  • The confidence to delay smartphones without your child feeling left out

  • The best parenting course we have done. For your child’s mental health, do it!

    Sara, UK

  • It sparked conversations we'd never had before about phones, the internet and AI — and reminded us of the joy of doing things in real life.

    Nina, Singapore

  • Take this course! So many 'aha' moments — it helped me be a more understanding and empathetic mum.

    Vanessa, UK

  • Fiona’s support does not just end when the course ends. She is a treasure trove of all preteen knowledge and has an arsenal of wisdom and tools to share!

    Lani, Singapore

  • In a few online sessions, Fiona has been able to give our daughter the confidence and tools to deal with her ‘hard things’. The sessions have been a real turning point for her.

    Merel, The Netherlands

  • Both my husband and I noticed a significant and positive difference in our daughter once she began mentoring with Fiona.

    Mona, USA

  • I wanted a safe and nurturing environment for my daughter to develop better communication skills, overcome her shyness, and gain a deeper understanding of herself and others. [She] has flourished in The Friendship Club and learned many invaluable lessons. We are eagerly looking forward to the next year!

    Gintare, Lithuania

  • Friendship club is amazing. I love talking with other girls about friendship, painting, making bracelets and crafts. I made so many friends and it's very fun because I'm with people who speak my language!

    Olivia, USA

  • Fiona is so thoughtful. You can really see how much care and research she puts into everything. My 12 year old Gaia joined her mindfulness seminar on the cusp of moving to València. It really helped her to voice so many challenging feelings and also fostered new friendships. Both of my daughters look forward to the monthly friendship circle meetups with other pre teen girls. Fiona is a champion of fostering healthy relationships while also supporting social emotional well being. Highly recommend any of her events/seminars.

    Nikki, USA

  • Fiona cares deeply about understanding and enhancing the relationships children have with their parents, families and friends, and their own self esteem. This shines through in every interaction. We have done a number of Fiona's workshops, coaching sessions and friendship club events and without doubt have a much deeper, more curious and empathetic connection to our children. Our pre-teen daughter found her best friends through friendship club and has loved all of the experiences and gained so much self confidence in navigating the challenges they face in this digital world. I highly recommend Fiona and her services, she is amazing.

    Sara, UK

  • My daughter and I had coaching sessions with Fiona, and I found them very helpful and insightful. They really broadened my understanding of parenting and gave me a fresh perspective on many situations. I would definitely recommend Fiona to anyone who has doubts, questions, or feels a lack of direction on their parenting journey

    Olesia, Ukraine

  • My daughter did a workshop and it was fantastic! She loved it and came home chatting about the things she learned and how much she loved it! Highly recommend

    Kate, Australia

I've spent 20 years working with young people and families across the world. But the reason I started Mothering Girls is a little more personal than that.

Hi, I’m Dr. Fiona Ghiglione

When I was a preteen in the 80s, I had none of the tools I needed to navigate what life was throwing at me. It took until my 20s — when I discovered mindfulness and psychology — before I really began to thrive.

I remember, at this time, wishing that my younger, preteen self had learnt these things earlier; and that my mum had too.

That wish became a mission.

Today I hold a PhD in Psychology from the University of Sydney, I'm an Assistant Professor at Berklee Valencia, a certified mindfulness instructor, and a mum of two girls determined to help families in these years.

Everything I create is rooted in research - and in a deep belief that these years, done well, can be truly extraordinary for you and your daughter.

I'd love to support your family.

Learn more about Fiona

The Preteen Years

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MBSR-T

Online or Valencia

An 8-week research-backed mindfulness program that gives your teen real tools to manage stress, anxiety and the pressures of growing up.

The Friendship Club

Valencia, Spain

A monthly club for preteen girls where they put aside their tech, socialise with other girls their age, have fun and talk all things friendship! Great for expat kids adjusting to living abroad.

Pause & Connect Mini-Course

Online

A gentle introduction to guiding your preteen in the digital world. Perfect if you're not sure where to start.

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